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Showing posts with label uk. Show all posts
Showing posts with label uk. Show all posts

Sunday, 29 June 2014

Journalism & my hometown

This is something I hold very close to my heart. I was born in Weymouth & have lived there the majority if my life. Before you start reading what I have to say; i'd love for you to read these two articles which have been in national news this week;
The Guardians Response
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/jun/29/why-locals-love-weymouth
The Observers report
http://www.theguardian.com/society/2014/jun/22/sun-sea-inequality-social-crisis-britain-resorts-weymouth

I really do hope you've read these, because otherwise what i'm about to say will appear completely out of context. 

I love Weymouth, but I am not blind to its flaw, my childhood was made up of running along the beach, idle stares from begrudging middle class mothers because I was raised by a single man, having my school bus route cut meaning I had to walk 50 minutes every morning to primary school, underage drinking, the beginning of my now prominent work ethic and determination to gain something better than what this lovely seaside town can offer me. 

Its true, the pregnancy rating of Weymouth has soared, on average in every shool year through secondary school there was at least one girl who fell pregnant... But from what I have seen each of these mothers are doing a better job at raising there child than the average 30-odd woman whose chatting to her mates as her child screams in her pushchair complaining about how hard her life is. (Without being judge openly by people in the street) 

I've witnessed street fights, been bullied, cried over lost love, seen grown teachers have mental breakdowns due to the relentless torture of our science class, and yet come out of it head girl of my school, visited Ghana on an exchange programme  and then later  student president of my sixth form. 

In the class system, most likely dictated by a journalist in a swanky office in London;  I should be considered working class. However I now study in London, have passed my first year of university, become vice president of the climbing society, gained a decent student job as a mentor AND done all this proudly representing my heritage.
 None of this could have been possible if I hadnt of been pushed by underpaid teachers who did their best to give every student the best options possible. 

I have friends who decided against leaving weymouth & have stayed, one is now an assistant manager of a public house on Weymouth's beautiful harbour side.  She is eighteen. No journalist can argue that she is wasting away in a town of poverty when she helps run a resturant that hits up to 300 covers a night in summer. 

Although I will proudly protect Weymouth, I agree there is work to be done, the town is slowly being enveloped in hundred of resturants and any shops are disappearing; Brewers Quay was a thriving part of Weymouth community, made the town's 'Victorian night' special and fun, it hosted childrens partys, had a sweet shop alongside supporting the work of independant weymouth artists. 

It was shut to be converted into a hotel complex before the 2012 Olympics which never happened. It is now a antiques l emporium(more appropriately named between my friends as a thrift shop) ran by volunteers desperate to renew  Weymouth back to its glory days. 

In conclusion to this rant, I can guarentee I've supported and challenged both articles you have just read, but supposedly I am the result of poor education and one of the hundreds of people The Observer have deemed aspiration-less. But all i will say is Tracy Mcveigh,  I understand you were probably told to write about the worst parts of Weymouth and completely ignore any good, but if there is one thing the average Weymouthian can do... Is remember a name. Bad luck for taking that bullet, as you are now no longer welcome.... But hey... What do I know? I'm not part of the 21st Century?! 


My entry into the Depths of Perception 2014 Competition

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Friday, 31 January 2014

Society's Flaws. (This is not because I'm not a size 8)

Since I was a young girl, I have always been happy. I like food, I enjoy the amazing things it can do, the sense of accomplishment you get when you've cooked an amazing meal. I also know that the culture I have been raised into has shown the biggest increase in people eating fast food, and showing the ever expanding waistlines, especially in the UK and our cousins across the pond.

I'm more than happy to admit that I am 'over weight' and this isn't some fat girl crying about being thin, I believe that girls who are naturally very skinny deal wight he same anger at wanting to achieve this 'Perfect' Body.  So i just want to state that again, THIS IS NOT AN ATTACK ON SKINNY/LARGER/MEDIUM/ANY TYPE of girl. Or guy.

I was scrolling through my Facebook this morning and I came across a video called Instagrams Most Famous Butt. And it actually made me feel really sad, this woman stated about how she felt that she was trying to make the world healthy, that it 'touched' her that she saw girls went to the gym every day for a mont just to look like her. This made me feel physically ill, she's an attractive lady, no doubt a very lovely person, however what i am not down with is how they explained she got to the place she has.

Jen works out every morning/day for a hard work out, including eating loads of small meals a day to keep her metabolism up. 

 Not everyone can do that, some of us have other commitments be it 9-5 jobs, apprenticeships, university, or even home commitments, most of us can't afford the gym every single day or afford to do the type of shopping for food which allows women like her to get like that. Though honestly, the thing that upset me the most is that Rihanna is one of her followers. She's practically endorsing this sort of body image which led many men in the video to say Why can't there be more woman like her?


Maybe its my very small feminist voice shouting, or maybe I'm moaning about nothing, but every woman should be seen as beautiful, granted, we all have preferences to what we want in our eventual life partners, however it is wrong to suggest that everyone should look the same.


Finally. She got her fame through posting pictures of her bum, to me... thats not exactly a dignified way to shoot towards stardom.

G